{"id":130,"date":"2023-03-17T14:32:13","date_gmt":"2023-03-17T14:32:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/stillsittingjohn.com\/?p=130"},"modified":"2023-03-17T14:32:18","modified_gmt":"2023-03-17T14:32:18","slug":"success","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/stillsittingjohn.com\/?p=130","title":{"rendered":"Success"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">(a prose poem by John Cowan)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A couple of decades ago, when I was about sixty-five, I found<br>myself a seat in the monthly meeting of The Association of<br>Organization Development\u2019s Minnesota Chapter. (O.D. for short)<br>This would be about the year 2000 and some time before that I<br>had hung up my career in O.D. for the tamer or at least different<br>career of being the temporary pastor of dysfunctional Episcopal<br>churches, with the intention to fix them. I was successful in that<br>because as you might suspect most churches preferred being<br>cured. The challenge is to effect the mood by being deeply<br>spiritual, peaceful and happy, and staying out of the way of the<br>parishioners\u2019 better intentions, and giving them room to speak<br>their anger.<br><br>The Association meeting was slow starting as we were waiting for<br>the speaker who never showed. Not to worry, we had forty people<br>in the room who could organize a meeting at the drop of a<br>microphone and one of them did.<br>\u201cO.K.\u201d he said. \u201cI need about seven relevant topics up here on the<br>board, then we will let you join the group of your interest, talk, and<br>report out for the benefit of all.\u201d Simple, straight forward, and<br>possibly interesting. So, he began the drill. The fifth person to<br>offer a topic, the head of the O.D. department of one of the largest<br>companies in the United States, said, \u201cI want to explore why my<br>career has been a failure.\u201d<br>Quiet ensued. Quite a bit of it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When we went back through the topics five people rose to sit with<br>him because they too wanted to explore the failure of their<br>careers. Five of the most well known and up to this moment most<br>respected O.D. consultants in the Twin Cities.<br>All these people in the failure group were acquaintances of mine,<br>and all outstripped me in the blue ribbons they had earned over<br>the years. If they failed, and if one indication of success was<br>money earned, I earned enough, but much less than they did, I<br>had failed also. But I did not feel like a failure. So, I joined another<br>group. I do not remember what my group talked about.<br>But I remember what the failures said. Management sold on<br>remarkable and exciting plans, some apparent changes, and then<br>over years falling short of expectations. They did not create the<br>promised land.<br><br>I had lucked into a different world. When I came to Honeywell in<br>1961 the two O.D. guys I joined were pushing a program that<br>started with classes on team behavior. For a week, day and late<br>into the night, in small groups, the trainees competed with the<br>other groups on artificial problems and then discussed their team<br>and personal behavior, assisted by some psych information, some<br>testing, but mostly the responses of their teammates.<br>I asked a graduate months later if the six days had done any<br>good. He said they had taught him what a team was and he could<br>not imagine a live human being who after that experience could<br>consider as the ideal anything less. We, the consultant team,<br>never looked to the entire division to measure our<br>accomplishment, we measured ourselves on those who charged<br>back to work, now unwilling to settle for the old definition of<br>\u201cteam.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We branched out from teaching in these classes to also assisting<br>our former students with teambuilding exercises in the teams they<br>worked in, using their behavior in real work as the target of<br>change. By the time I left Honeywell employment, this was not an<br>orderly process. We worked with whichever teams wanted us to<br>work and whichever groups seemed to share our hopes for what<br>a team should be, whether or not they had attended our training<br>events. But supported by the reputation of a team training that<br>had changed lives in the educational environment.<br><br>That process got me a successful start. Success was not<br>achieved by me and my fellow teachers. It was achieved by those<br>we taught. But we shared in the glow of their successes.<br>Years later as I was beginning to consult in an organization<br>primarily of diesel mechanics, (five garages of a city bus<br>company,) right from the get-go I suggested we needed a steering<br>committee of about five mechanics to help us decide what to do<br>about anything. Management appointed five guys who reluctantly<br>came to our first meeting and dragged their feet through a painful<br>going nowhere process.<br><br>Close to quitting time somebody asked what time it was and I, as<br>the only possessor of a watch in the room, said we had about<br>fifteen minutes before the quitting bell. One of the mechanics<br>turned to the Superintendent, the only management in the room,<br>and said how lousy it was to be on the South side of the building<br>where there was no clock. Guys on the North side had a wall<br>clock they could see. (When working with diesel bus motors it is<br>wise to have nothing dangling, even a watch.) The Super said<br>stuff like that will get worked on once we get started with the<br>program. Lots of people grunted, and we went home, adjourning<br>until the next day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">On his way to work, the Super stopped at a hardware store and<br>bought a clock. He came early to the evening meeting, found a<br>nail and a hammer, and hung the clock on the South wall. As<br>each mechanic entered, that person spontaneously made a<br>positive comment about that clock.<br><br>We sat down to work. Suddenly we were a team, and I was a<br>success. The consultant who followed me after I moved on to<br>other pastures told me I was a legend. I told him that if the Super<br>had not hung a clock on the South wall, I would have been a<br>nobody. Perhaps even more important than that, within a couple<br>of weeks, the leadership team was no longer referred to by the<br>mass of mechanics as \u201csuck holes.\u201d Quite an improvement in the<br>atmosphere.<br><br>My Dad for some time was the President of a Union, Local 340,<br>Plumbers and Pipefitters, at the Minneapolis Gas Company. He<br>also was a whizz with numbers. 11:00 p.m. as I emerged from<br>watching the TV in the basement, he had the financial section of<br>an upcoming contract spread out on the kitchen table. He wearily<br>looked up at me looking down at it, and said, out of nowhere,<br>\u201cThis is not about money, John. This is about respect!\u201d And then<br>put his nose back into the numbers.<br><br>I thought the mechanic wanted a clock on the South wall so he<br>could tell the time. Maybe that too, but the Super gave him what<br>he wanted as well, respect. The Super could have written a note,<br>handed it to a secretary, who would have turned it into a work<br>order which would have required a requisition for a clock, which<br>would have needed a carpenter, (Union shop!) and an electrician<br>(Union Shop!) By the time it was hung, my reason for being there<br>would have been smothered in the ill will greasy diesel mechanics<br>give to strangers in business suits. Once the Super started the<br>ball rolling, I became a legend, on the good will and intelligence<br>and effort of others, pretty much. That is I became: A SUCCESS.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I did some things right. When I was heading out to administer a<br>Questionnaire on employee feelings about needed changes<br>somebody said, \u201cDon\u2019t worry about the night shift, they are always<br>skipped for stuff like this.\u201d<br><br>Guess where I started. Where my Daddy said I should.<br>People who are not respected are deeply appreciative of those<br>who give them some. Now that I think of it, that may have been<br>where the legend began. My staggering around half asleep<br>soliciting the opinions of the night shift. (One midnight sit down<br>with a group, the foreman pointed to a guy in the back row<br>wearing a bandana for a hat and suggested I be careful with him<br>because he was crazy. He said, \u201cCrazy people need jobs too!\u201d I<br>was very careful.)<br><br>My dad went on at some length some nights, about what a great<br>man the company president was. And why did my dad think him<br>great? He showed great respect for Charlie Cowan. I too feel<br>immense respect for Mr. Mullin. And my reason? The only thing I<br>knew about him is that he had great respect for Charlie Cowan.<br>Good Idea<br><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>(a prose poem by John Cowan) A couple of decades ago, when I was about sixty-five, I foundmyself a seat in the monthly meeting of&#8230;<\/p>\n<div class=\"more-link-wrapper\"><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/stillsittingjohn.com\/?p=130\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Success<\/span><\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-130","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-essays","entry"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v28.7 - 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